Whoopi Goldberg openly discussed her approach to sex and relationships during a recent episode of “The View.” The 70-year-old actress revealed that she actively seeks casual encounters when she feels the need, describing her behavior as “hit and runs.”
Goldberg’s Candid Admission
The discussion began after the panel reviewed a Cosmopolitan article about a woman in a long-term relationship who still feels nostalgia for her single days. When co-host Joy Behar inquired if Goldberg ever misses those days, Goldberg replied, “I am single.” She then confirmed that she frequents bars specifically to find casual partners, stating bluntly, “I bar hop. I go hang! I do hit and runs when I need it!”
The audience reacted positively to Goldberg’s direct language. This isn’t the first time she has spoken openly about her preference for non-committal relationships. In December, she used the same “hit and run” phrasing when admitting she has no desire for long-term commitments.
Longstanding Preference For Casual Encounters
Goldberg has consistently expressed her preference for casual sex. Earlier this year, in an interview with Interview Magazine, she stated that “not everybody’s cut out to be in a relationship,” and that some people are simply better suited for “one-night stands.”
She further elaborated that she has no desire to cohabitate with anyone, citing her experience living with her daughter as a sufficient limit. Goldberg made it clear she enjoys intimacy but does not seek or require a committed partner. “I have lots of people that I love, but I don’t need them living with me. I don’t need to be sleeping with them,” she said.
Why This Matters
Goldberg’s openness is unusual, especially given societal norms that often discourage older women from discussing their sexuality so explicitly. Her candidness challenges the idea that sexual desire fades with age, and suggests that women can maintain a highly active casual sex life at any stage of life. This also highlights a broader shift in how some people approach relationships: prioritizing personal freedom over traditional expectations.
Goldberg’s statements have resonated with some viewers, as evidenced by the audience’s applause. This suggests an appetite for more honest conversations about sexuality, especially from public figures who defy conventional expectations.
